最近的心情反反复复的~
是因为天气的关系吗？？
还是又开始在胡思乱想了呢？？
ermm...不懂~
常很容易为一点小事而静下来~
很容易的掉下眼泪~
他问我：“为什么？？”
我自己也不懂~
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新的学期~
又将开始很忙了~
我一直曾现在没那么忙的时候回去陪他~
因为我知道~
我忙起来会六亲不认~
他也会不高兴~
只是他一直都没说出来~
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胡言乱语~
彩虹是一道充满色彩的自然现象... 彩虹就像我的人生... 一个充满快乐色彩的人生... 虽然不懂彩虹几时才会出现... 但... 在我心中有一道永不消失的彩虹...
2009年8月24日星期一
累了，就把心事放下
能解決的事，不必去擔心；
不能解決的事，擔心也沒用。
在順境中感恩、在逆境中依舊心存喜樂 ……
累了，就把心事放下來
最近認識一位美國籍的出家師父，是個很有趣的事情。
特別是他叫我舉起蕃茄汁，跟他說話的經驗。
我們約在新竹的一家茶館，用英文談論著心經，
師父用英文跟我解釋因果、輪迴這些事情，這都還不稀奇。
有趣的事情在後頭呢！
師父一聽完我跟他提到～個人煩惱的時候，
他索性要我左手提起他剛買的三罐番茄汁，
一邊提著，一邊跟他說話。
可想而知，我左手感覺到疲勞的程度，跟時間成了正比。
也懊惱著為何師父要我一邊提著三罐蕃茄汁，一邊跟他說話。
受不了這樣的酸楚，我自行把左手放下，
卻聽到師父跟我說：
「 Hold it up, and keep talking to me. 」
聽到這樣的話，心理不免起了疑心，
我手提的那麼酸，
為何不讓我放下手上的重物，輕鬆地與他對談？
約莫過了15分鐘，我的左手實在承受不住了，
才聽見師父跟我說：「Now you can put it down」。
看著我狐疑的臉，師父居然笑了出來。
「你不喜歡提著重物跟我說話， 為何你卻喜歡帶著煩惱，過著你的生活呢？ 手酸了，放下就好，對待煩惱，不也是這樣？ 或是這些煩惱，就像是那些番茄汁一樣，是你自己用手把它們給舉起來的呢？」
有趣的經驗，對吧？
最近我開始這樣的練習，
一手舉起有重量的東西，一邊想著事情。
手酸了，自然會放下手上的東西，
看看有一天，我會不會也學到，心累了，就把心事給放下來。
我們能很容易的放下有形的重物，
卻很難放下無形的重擔。
執著的人生～會讓自己承擔莫需有的重擔。
學習放下執著～也就在學習人生自在。
这是我一位朋友给我的ｅ－ｍａｉｌ～
觉得很有用～
所以ｐｏ上来和大家分享～
不能解決的事，擔心也沒用。
在順境中感恩、在逆境中依舊心存喜樂 ……
累了，就把心事放下來
最近認識一位美國籍的出家師父，是個很有趣的事情。
特別是他叫我舉起蕃茄汁，跟他說話的經驗。
我們約在新竹的一家茶館，用英文談論著心經，
師父用英文跟我解釋因果、輪迴這些事情，這都還不稀奇。
有趣的事情在後頭呢！
師父一聽完我跟他提到～個人煩惱的時候，
他索性要我左手提起他剛買的三罐番茄汁，
一邊提著，一邊跟他說話。
可想而知，我左手感覺到疲勞的程度，跟時間成了正比。
也懊惱著為何師父要我一邊提著三罐蕃茄汁，一邊跟他說話。
受不了這樣的酸楚，我自行把左手放下，
卻聽到師父跟我說：
「 Hold it up, and keep talking to me. 」
聽到這樣的話，心理不免起了疑心，
我手提的那麼酸，
為何不讓我放下手上的重物，輕鬆地與他對談？
約莫過了15分鐘，我的左手實在承受不住了，
才聽見師父跟我說：「Now you can put it down」。
看著我狐疑的臉，師父居然笑了出來。
「你不喜歡提著重物跟我說話， 為何你卻喜歡帶著煩惱，過著你的生活呢？ 手酸了，放下就好，對待煩惱，不也是這樣？ 或是這些煩惱，就像是那些番茄汁一樣，是你自己用手把它們給舉起來的呢？」
有趣的經驗，對吧？
最近我開始這樣的練習，
一手舉起有重量的東西，一邊想著事情。
手酸了，自然會放下手上的東西，
看看有一天，我會不會也學到，心累了，就把心事給放下來。
我們能很容易的放下有形的重物，
卻很難放下無形的重擔。
執著的人生～會讓自己承擔莫需有的重擔。
學習放下執著～也就在學習人生自在。
这是我一位朋友给我的ｅ－ｍａｉｌ～
觉得很有用～
所以ｐｏ上来和大家分享～
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1. Who was your FIRST prom date?
never go b4...
2. Do you still talk to your FIRST love?
Nope…
3. What was your FIRST alcoholic drink?
4get oredi…
4. What was your FIRST job?
sales…
5. What was your FIRST car?
din hav money 2 buy it… if hav money I’ll buy myvi-se
6. Who was the FIRST person to text you today?
my dear~
7. Who is the FIRST person you thought of this morning?
my dear~
8. Who was your FIRST grade teacher?
Miss Chin, my English teacher in primary sch…
9. Where did you go on your FIRST ride on an airplane?
shanghai…
10. Who was your FIRST best friend?
si xin, my primary classmate…
11. Where was your FIRST sleep over?
ermm… dun remember…
12. Who was the FIRST person you talked to today?
my mum, ask me buy breakfast 4 she…
13. Whose wedding were you in the FIRST time?
my mum’s sis…
14. What was the FIRST thing you did this morning?
dreaming on de bed…
15. What was the FIRST concert you ever went to?
singing at primary sch…
16. FIRST tattoo?
No, am din hav tattoo…
17. FIRST piercing?
duno wat it means…
18. FIRST foreign country you've gone to?
china-shanghai…
19. FIRST movie you remember seeing?
dun remember any more…
20. When was your FIRST detention?
always happen when am in primary sch~
22. Who was your FIRST roommate?
my mother n father…
23. If you had one wish, what would it be?
get every thing am need n am want…
24. What is something you would learn if you had the chance?
all element in hiphop dance beside breaking,guitar n drum…
25. Did you marry the FIRST person to ask for you/ you asked to marry?
Duno yet…
26. What was the first sport you were involved in?
badminton…
27. What were the first lessons you ever took?
4get oredi…
28. What is the first thing you do when you get home?
depend…
29. Who do you think will be the next person to post this?
Hw I noe…
Copy and paste this note into your notes, delete my answers, and fill yours in.. (:
Tagged by venuss... ...
1. Who was your FIRST prom date?
never go b4...
2. Do you still talk to your FIRST love?
Nope…
3. What was your FIRST alcoholic drink?
4get oredi…
4. What was your FIRST job?
sales…
5. What was your FIRST car?
din hav money 2 buy it… if hav money I’ll buy myvi-se
6. Who was the FIRST person to text you today?
my dear~
7. Who is the FIRST person you thought of this morning?
my dear~
8. Who was your FIRST grade teacher?
Miss Chin, my English teacher in primary sch…
9. Where did you go on your FIRST ride on an airplane?
shanghai…
10. Who was your FIRST best friend?
si xin, my primary classmate…
11. Where was your FIRST sleep over?
ermm… dun remember…
12. Who was the FIRST person you talked to today?
my mum, ask me buy breakfast 4 she…
13. Whose wedding were you in the FIRST time?
my mum’s sis…
14. What was the FIRST thing you did this morning?
dreaming on de bed…
15. What was the FIRST concert you ever went to?
singing at primary sch…
16. FIRST tattoo?
No, am din hav tattoo…
17. FIRST piercing?
duno wat it means…
18. FIRST foreign country you've gone to?
china-shanghai…
19. FIRST movie you remember seeing?
dun remember any more…
20. When was your FIRST detention?
always happen when am in primary sch~
22. Who was your FIRST roommate?
my mother n father…
23. If you had one wish, what would it be?
get every thing am need n am want…
24. What is something you would learn if you had the chance?
all element in hiphop dance beside breaking,guitar n drum…
25. Did you marry the FIRST person to ask for you/ you asked to marry?
Duno yet…
26. What was the first sport you were involved in?
badminton…
27. What were the first lessons you ever took?
4get oredi…
28. What is the first thing you do when you get home?
depend…
29. Who do you think will be the next person to post this?
Hw I noe…
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